Ubhaliso olungabhalwanga, kodwa ngoku iMithetho ebhaliweyo yokuthumela imiyalezo

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Emuva ngo-2009, uJodi-Ann Beelby unethambo lokukhetha. Umntu oneminyaka engama-21 ubudala e-Brock University, e-Ontario, Can., Wayesanda kuqalisa iqela le - Facebook elizinikezele ekufundiseni ubugcisa obuhle bokubambisa abasebenzisi bamakhasimende athathwe ngokukhawuleza. Leli qela, elibizwa ngokuthi 'I-Unwritten, kodwa Ngoku i-Règle ebhaliweyo ye-Windows MSN Messaging, "kwakuyiforamu yeBelby ukwabelana ngemithetho malunga nokuthumela imiyalezo eqala ukujoyina i-MSN Messenger njengomgcini wesixhenxe ngo-1999. Nangona i-MSN Messenger ivaliwe ngo-2014, izikhokelo kunye nezenzo ezintle ezibhalwe ngeBelby zisenokwenene kwaye zingasetyenziswa kwizintlu zokusebenza zemiyalezo kunye namapulatifomu namhlanje.

I-Unwritten, Kodwa ngoku iMithetho ebhalwe phantsi kwi-Instant Messaging (IM)

NguJody-Ann Beelby

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1. Ukuphendula umntu kwi-IM akufanele kuthathe ngaphezu kwemizuzu emi-3, ubuninzi bemizuzu emi-5.
2. Musa ukuphendula ngeempendulo enye yegama! Ibulala iingxoxo!
3. Gwema ukukhawuleza ngaphandle kokuba udibene ne-IM yakho yokudibanisa. Abahlobo abatsha kwi-intanethi abanako ukuqonda ukuba uthetha ngokukhawuleza.
4. Gwema ukusebenzisa ezininzi Iimpawu ze-IM. Uninzi lwe-'LOLs 'lungaphinda lugxeke ukuhlambalaza, kungabi ukuhleka ngokukhawuleza.
5. Ukuba uya kuba kude kwikhompyutheni imizuzu engaphezu kwe-10, yithi "i-BRB" nabani na othetha naye, okanye utshintshe isimo sakho / ukufumaneka.
6. Ukuba ungangenanga ngokungalindelekanga nangaphandle ngexesha le-Intetho ye-IM, kukuxanduva lwakho ukuqala kwakhona ingxoxo kunye nokucela uxolo okanye ukujikela ngqo kwinto othetha ngayo.
7. Musa ukubhala i-agenda yakho yemihla ngemihla kwisithuba sakho somyalezo. Abantu abanomdla kakhulu apho ukhona, mhlawumbi unayo inombolo yefowuni yakho nangoko.
8. Ukuba abantu ababini besini esahlukileyo basandul 'ukutshintshana amagama eskrini ngenxa yokuba banako ukuhlanganisana kwixesha elizayo, lo mfana kufuneka ahlale evakalisa intombazana kuqala. Ukuba ngaba ngabahlobo nje, nabani na obeneminyaka engama-intanethi xa umntu esayinwe nguye uxanduva lokuqalisa incoko.

1. Ukulungiswa kwazo zonke iiposiso zesipelo kunye ne-typos ayimfuneko, kuphela ukuba oko wabhala kwakuyizwi elingalunganga okanye umntu akayi kuqonda ngaphandle kokuba uyilungise.
2. Ungasebenzisi iifolda ezilula okanye ezingafundwanga. Kucaphukisa.
3. Ukuba awufuni ukuthetha nomntu othumela imiyalezo, kulungile ukwenza isikhalazo kwaye ubavimbele. Qiniseka ukuba uvimbele nayiphi na abahlobo abahlobo oba nayo.
4. Ukuba awuzange ubone okanye uthethe omnye wabathintana nabo kwiminyaka emibini efanelekileyo, kulungile ukuwacima.
5. Qaphela ukuba uthini kwiingxoxo zakho. Umntu ngenye inxalenye unokugcina ingxoxo yakho ye-IM.
6. Ukuba ufuna ukushiya incoko ye-IM, kulungile ukuthetha ukuba kutheni uhamba, kodwa akunakulungelekile.
7. Njalo uthi "I-Goodbye" okanye "TTYL," musa ukukhawuleza utyine umxhasi wakho we-IM.
8. Iimvakalelo zilungile ukusebenzisa kodwa ungabasebenzisi. Ngokomzekelo, abanakuthatha indawo yamagama, bahamba kunye namazwi. Ubuso obubuhlungu kufuneka buhambisane nesizathu sokuba udidekile.
9. Ama-Countdowns amkelekile kwimilayezo yesimo, nje kuphela xa uthetha oko bakuyo kwaye uwagcine ufikelele. Ukuba iiholide zakho zeKrisimesi zingama-3 iintsuku, qiniseka ukuba i-countdown yakho ayithethi iintsuku ezingama-23. Akukho mntu uthanda abantu abangenakubuyela emva.

1. Ukuba wenza umsebenzi wesikolo okanye ufunda ngexesha kwi-IM, qiniseka ukuba ubeke isimo sakho simatasa / sishiya, ngoko abantu ababi kuwe ngenxa yokungaphenduli.
2. Ukuba unendaba ezibalulekileyo ukuxelela umntu okanye ibali elide, sebenzisa i-imeyile ukuba ubhale phantsi okanye usebenzise ifowuni.
3. Ukuxabana nomntu phezu kwe-IM akuvumelekanga.
4. Ukuba ungena ngemvume phantsi kwegama lomnxeba womhlobo kwaye omnye wabo oqhagamshelwano uqala ukuthetha nawe, qiniseka ukuba ubaxelele ukuba nguwe kwaye akusiyo umhlobo wakho. Ukuba unomxholo opheleleyo kunye nabo bazenza ngathi ungumhlobo wakho, umhlobo wakho uya kubonakala ngathi idiot xa bethetha nalo mntu kwakhona kuba mhlawumbi baya kubuza imibuzo efanayo naleyo wenza iintsuku ezimbalwa ezedlule.
5. Ukuba kukho umzali, umntakwabo okanye umhlobo eklasini ongazifuni ukuyifunda incoko, utshintshe isimo sakho kwi-BRB okanye ubhale i-POS (umzali phezu kwephepha).
6. Unokuba neentetho ezinzulu kwi-IM, kodwa nantoni na into enzulu imele ifakwe ubuso nobuso. Iingxoxo ze-IM zilula ukuba abantu bathethe izinto abangazithethiyo okanye bafumanisa indlela engafanelekanga.

1. Ukuba unxiliswe kwaye kwi-IM, unokucinga ukuba uyonwabile, kodwa umntu othetha naye akakwazi ukufunda igama oluchwepayo. Gwema i-IM xa utywala.
2. Ukuba umyalezo wakho wesimo ubonisa ukuba udidekile okanye unomsindo, awunalo ilungelo lokuxelela umntu "Musa ukukhathazeka malunga nalo." Kuyakhathaza kakhulu.
3. Ungangena ngemvume kwi-IM ngaphezu kweeyure ezine ngosuku. Oku kungabangela inkathazo, ingakumbi kulabo abanesilumkiso esilungelelanisa rhoqo xa ungena ungene ngemvume.
4. Nika igama lakho lephasiwedi kwiimifanekiso ze-IM zakho uqaphele. Ngokukodwa kwizinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ukuba uyaphula okanye uyeke ukuba ngumhlobo, loo mntu unokubhala izinto ezinqabileyo okanye ezihlazo malunga nawe kwi-akhawunti yakho ye-IM.
5. Musa ukungeze abantu abangaziwa kwi-IM, yilokho i-Facebook. (Inqaku lomhleli: Qaphela ngokuqhagamshelana nabantu abangaziwayo kuyo nayiphina isicwangciso semiyalezo, kuquka i-Facebook.)
6. Ukuthetha nabantu xa kuvela ngaphandle kwe-intanethi kupholile.
7. Ukujongana nabantu ubuso nobuso malunga nabo bakuvimbela. Vele uhambe kwaye uvumeleke.
8. Sebenzisa i-IM ukuthetha. I-Facebook iya kukuxelela ngubani okhompyutheni.

1. Enye i-nudge okanye i-buzz kwi-IM ngumda. Ukuqhawula amaninzi kuyacaphukisa, ingakumbi ukuba bakuxelele ukuba uyeke.
2. Musa ukuqalisa iingxoxo xa ungenanto yokuthetha. Ziphela ziba buthathaka.

Ukuhlaziywa ngu-Christina Michelle Bailey, 6/28/16