I-blogger yomama ophezulu ukwabelana ngeengcebiso zokuthetha nentsha malunga nokuthunyelwa kweefayili ze-sexting
Njengoko umnxeba kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo zeselula zikhula phakathi kwabafundi abaphakamileyo nabaphakamileyo be-school, umcimbi wokuthunyelwa kwe-teenage e-teenage ephakamileyo uye waphakamisa intloko kuyo. Ukususela kumagumbi okuxoxa asetsheni - apho ukuthunyelwa kweefayile ze-imeyli edlalwa njenge 'yangasese' nje ngegama elithi 'Kik sexting' kunye ne 'Snapchat sexting' ithatha ingcambu eqinileyo kwihlabathi lethu - kubantwana abaxhamli be-intanethi abazingelayo baze basongele abatsha ekuthumeleni iifoto ezishukumisayo, abatsha bathabatha iifoto ze-naked kwaye zisasazwa ngefowuni kunye ne-intanethi.
Abazali abanokuthi bajongane neempembelelo zabantwana abasetyenziselwa ukuthumela imifanekiso yeefowuni kunye neetekisi, kodwa ootitshala kunye nokunyanzeliswa komthetho baye bajoyina ukutshabalalisa njengentsholongwane yamatyala amatsha-kunye nokudlula imithetho emininzi yokuthumela imiyalezo ye-post- ngoku ichaphazela abanye ngaphandle amaqela achaphazelekayo.
Njengeminye eminye imiba yeselula, abazali kufuneka baqaphele ngokusetyenziswa kwefowuni yomfundi kwaye bavule imigca yonxibelelwano malunga nokuthunyelwa kwe-teenage ye-teenage, utshilo uLori Cunningham, we-WellConnectedMom.com, ibhulogi igxile kumama kunye ne-teknoloji.
"Unxibelelana ngesondo nomntwana wakho, kufuneka uxoxe nge-sms nomntwana wakho," kusho uCunningham, kwintetho yocingo. "Impumelelo yokuthumelelana nge-post-teenage intsha inokuyenza ngokubanxibelelana phakathi kwabazali nabantwana."
Ngelixa iselfowuni esasetyenziselwa ukwakha isimo, intombazana yanamhlanje ibandakanya iteknoloji kunye neentsuku zeemvelo eziqhelekileyo zasesikolweni esiphakathi nesekondari. Umphumo wokuphela, uCunningham uthi, unako ukuthunyelwa nge-post-tune ukuba kwenzeke xa umntwana wakho eqala ukuqala.
Kodwa, kunokugxila ekuthumeleni i-teenage e-teenager kuphela, uCunningham uthi ukujonga ngokunyanisekileyo ulutsha kunye nokuthandana kunokuhamba ixesha elide ekuthintela imiphumo ekuboniseni iifoto ezicacileyo zesini kunye nemiyalezo ebhaliweyo nabanye.
"Ukuba uthendlebe nabaselula, uninzi luya kuthetha ukuthumelelana nge-post," watsho. Kodwa, xa bebudlelane, ukwahlukana kukuba ukuthembela okuqhubekayo - bazive [abanye babo abalulekayo] banomqolo wabo. Ngelishwa, xa beqhekeka, yilapho le mifanekiso idluliselwa. "
UCunningham ukhuthaza abazali ukuba banothando kodwa beqinile ekuchazeni ukuba akubona bonke ubudlelwane obusebenzayo kwaye maxa wambi amaxesha abantwana abasakhulayo apheli kakuhle. Ukuba abafana bayabelana ngale mizobo, banokubonakala babonakala, uthe.
Ekugqibeleni, abazali abaxhomekeke kulo xanduva ngenxa yokuba awuyiqondi iteknoloji.
"Olu luqhagamshelwano lwesizukulwana sethu," kusho uCunningham. "Ukuqonda iteknoloji yanamhlanje kunye nokuyisebenzisa nabantwana bayo baya kubazali abanomzali kunye nabaselula (kuba besetyenziselwa ulutsha lomnxibelelwano olutsha) kunye nokuba banokukhusela abafana babo kwiimeko eziyingozi."
Iingcebiso ezi-7 eziphezulu zokuthetha ngokuthumela imiyalezo yeTekisi kunye nentsha
Njengomzali, ukuthintela ukuthunyelwa kwe-imeyli kudinga ukunxibelelana nokulungiselela. Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa ezicacileyo ezivela kwintetho yam noMnu Cunningham:
Hlola ukukhula ngaphambi kokunika abantwana i-Cell Phone
UCunningham utshilo uDkt. Charles Sophy, umlawuli wezonyango kwiSebe laseLos Angeles kwiSebe leeNkonzo zeBantwana, ekucebiseni abazali ukuba baqwalasele ukusetyenziswa kwefowuni kwiminyaka eyi-12. Nangona kunjalo, uyayilumkisa, kungeyena wonke umntwana ulungele ngoko.
Cinga ngomnxeba womzali-we-Cell Phone
Misela izilwanyana kunye nezikhokelo zentombazana yakho kwaye uzibeke ebhaliweyo.
Maye Abafana Bazile Imida Yabo
Ukongezelela ekukhetheni imida efanelekileyo yedatha kunye nomyalezo wokuthumela imiyalezo, abazali kufuneka baxelele umntwana wabo ongeyena umnxeba. Njengengxenye yale ngxoxo, xubusha inketho yokubeka i-app yokubeka esweni kwifowuni ukuze ukwazi ukulandelela ukuba ziphi kunye nento abakwenzayo.
Yazi Abo Bathethayo
Gcina unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo kwaye ubuyekelele ezi zilindele rhoqo ngokujonga idivayisi yakho yeselula yokuthumela imiyalezo ye-imeyile kunye neminye imisebenzi engxaki. Ukuvimbela intsha ekuncedeni iiphasiwedi zeefowuni kwaye zihlawulise ukuba zenza umzamo wokufihla umsebenzi wazo. Landela nentombazana yakho malunga nabahlobo babo, kokubili kwi-Intanethi kunye nokucima.
Xoxa ngemithetho, imiyalezo yeTxt
Uphando lwe-intanethi malunga nemithetho yokuthumela imiyalezo ye-imeyile ekulawuleni kwakho, kunye nokuwa kwe-SMS. Funda amabali kunye nentsha yakho malunga nendlela ukuthumelelana nge-imeyile kuye kwachaphazela njani intsha, ukusuka kwikholeji kunye nokukhangela imisebenzi, ukutshutshisa nokuzibulala.
Baxwayise Ngokuthumela, Ukuthumela Iinkcukacha Zomntu
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yimaphi, intsha kufuneka ifundiswe ukuba ingabelani ukwazisa ulwazi malunga nabo nge-IM, i-imeyile okanye imiyalezo yombhalo, kuquka isikolo, inombolo yefowuni okanye idilesi yasekhaya.
Xa ungathandabuzeki, Vimba i-Photo Messaging
Uninzi lweefowuni zithintela abasebenzisi ukuba bathumele okanye bafumane imiyalezo yesithombe, ukuba abayikunika isicwangciso ngaphandle kwesi nkonzo. Ukuba unemiba yokuthumela i-post, okanye unokukhathazeka, unokuhlala ulungelelanisa isicwangciso sakho seselula.
Ngaba ufuna uncedo olungakumbi ngokuthetha nge-SMS? I-Cunningham inikeza i-intanethi "i-eBook yeeNtsha kunye neeSelesi ze-Cell Primer" kwi-website yayo.