Iindlela ezili-10 zokuphucula ikhono lakho lokusebenzisana
Ngaba ukholelwa ukuba ukusebenzisana kuyisakhono esinokuyifunda? Ekubeni, sinoyiko, kodwa ephantsi sifuna ukusebenzisana. Ngamanye amaxesha asiyazi ukuba sihamba njani ngokusebenzisana nabanye.
Sinokususa izithintelo ekusebenzisaneni kwimibutho ngokusebenzisa ubukhombisi obunamandla bokudibanisa iinjongo kunye nokudala iinkqubo zemivuzo yokusebenza ngokubambisana. Kodwa ngokubalulekileyo, kufuneka siphucule ubuhlobo bethu bokusebenzisana esinokukwazi ukulawula ukudala umhlaba oqinileyo wokubambisana.
"Ngokwemvelo sinobuntu kwaye sinovuyo xa sisebenzisana ngokuphumelelayo," kusho uDkt. Randy Kamen-Gredinger, onguchwepheshe weengqondo kunye nootitshala. UDkt. Kamen-Gredinger uhlakulela iinkqubo zokuziphatha ukubanceda abantu banqobe uxinzelelo kunye nentlungu, kwaye ifundisa nobunxibelelwano bokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle. Ngomsebenzi wakhe, uDkt. Kamen-Gredinger wanceda intsimi entsha kwintetho / imichiza yomzimba kwiSikolo soPhilo lweYunivesithi yaseBoston kwaye uthethe kwiikholeji ezingama-30 neeyunivesithi kunye nezibhedlele ezingama-20.
Kwintetho yam kunye noDkt. Kamen-Gredinger, sathetha ngokubaluleka kokubambisana kunye nezicwangciso esinokuzifunda ukuzenza zonke iintsuku. Nazi izicwangciso ezilishumi zokusebenzisana okungcono eziphuma kule ngxoxo ukuze zisincede sibe nobudlelwane obunxibelelwano obuvelisayo ekhaya, emsebenzini okanye naphi na.
Ukubeka iqela eliPhumeleleyo eliPhambi koNcedo lwaBantu
Njengomntu, uhlala ufuna ukwenza okusemandleni akho, kodwa sifunde ukuba impumelelo yeqela iya kufikelela kwiziphumo ezinkulu. Iimbaleki zeOlimpiki ngumzekelo obalaseleyo wempumelelo yeqela, apho abantu abazameli kuphela kwimisebenzi yabo, kodwa kwilizwe labo nakwabanye, okuyiyophawu lokuhlanganiswa kweMidlalo yeOlimpiki.
Thepha kwiNqanaba elibanzi leZibonelelo.
Mhlawumbi uye wakuva le ntetho, yonke into ephezulu kunenani leengxenye, eyasungulwa yiGestalt kwengqondo. Wonke umntu uzisa into etafileni, nokuba ingqondo, ukudala, okanye imali, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
YiNtlalo
UDkt. Kamen-Gredinger uthi: "Sinesidingo sokuqala sentlalo. Kwinqanaba lomntu, abantu bazivakale xa umntu exabisa umdla wakho kubo.
Buza imibuzo
Endaweni yokuhlala uxelela, zama ukubuza imibuzo. Xa uqala ingxoxo ngombuzo, ngokukhawuleza ungenise omnye umntu uze ungeze into ebalulekileyo kunokuba yintoni umntu onokuyenza, yindlela endixoxa ngayo noDkt. Kamen-Gredinger.
Gcina izibophelelo
Ukuphuhliswa kobuqu kunye nobugcisa, landela ngezithembiso zakho. Abantu bayazi kwaye bakhumbule ukuba banokuzimela kuwe.
Qhagamshelana ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nomnye
Yiba yinyani endleleni yakho yokusebenzisana nabantu. Ukusebenzisana ngokubambisana kunokunceda uqhagamshelwano lwakho. Njengoko ufunda ukusebenzisana bhetele, uya kunceda abanye endleleni, naye.
Yenza Eyona Ntle Yakho
Zibuze ukuba unobambiswano okanye usebenza kuzo zonke iindlela zokufumana isiphumo esihle. Ukuba imeko ivela apho uzive usongelwa, qhubeka uxhuma nabanye ukuze usebenze kunye.
Zibambelele ekusebenzisaneni
Xa usondela kwithuba elisebenzisanayo, cacisa oko wenzayo ngokucacileyo kangako kwaye uchaze ukuba kutheni uvakalelwa ngale ndlela. Vula amathuba - abantu bayakukholelwa kuwe, kwaye amabini omabini aya kubona izibonelelo.
Tune xa Udibana nomnye umntu
Xa usenza uxhumano, laphula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ubonise lo mntu kubalulekile kuwe. Wonke umntu ufuna ukuva iindaba zezwi.
Zixhobisa kwiPhambili
Ukucinga ukuba wenza okusemandleni akho kunye nabanye abakungeenxa yakho, khumbula ukuba sonke sisebenzisana. Awukwazi ukungahambi kakuhle ngokugqwesa.